Fuck it...I'm tired and cranky and...all that crap...so...Upcoming Friends-List Review

[doniago]

If you a) haven't made a "significant" comment since May 1, b) _have_ posted yourself since May 1, and c) want to be assured of staying on my Friends list beyond this weekend, then please d) comment to this entry and e) be aware that I'm kind of bothered by the lack of contact lately.

Note that removal from my friends list does NOT constitute me not caring about you, but DOES constitute a sign that we need to work on whatever friendship we have, as well as a sign that I don't think you've been particularly paying attention to this.

Point of cliarification- I'm especially troubled by situations where I feel I'm putting a lot of time and energy into caring about someone, in the form of commenting on posts where they're emotionally troubled...and yet, they don't reciprocate. If you want me to keep being there for you, get off your ass and be there for me once in a while.

Again, this post is being written in a yucky emotional state. Maybe I'll cheer up and rethink it later.

Comments

[neith32.livejournal.com]

I don't expect anything from you anymore. This was merely an idle comment that I'd thought I'd toss out. Seeing how you're complaining that no one comments on your journal, I thought, given the chance to actually be able to, that I would do just that. Comment.

Twice now even. Wow.

[doniago.livejournal.com]

Well...I guess that's that, then.

If you don't expect anything from me, you at least showed me that I shouldn't expect anything from you.